Only Love Can Hurt Like This (Slowed Down Version)

❤️‍🩹 Narcissists thrive on control. They know exactly how to push your buttons, provoke reactions, and keep you emotionally hooked. But what happens when their tactics stop working? Here’s how to silently take away their power… 1️⃣ Answer questions with questions – Instead of defending yourself, flip the conversation. Narcissists use interrogation style questioning to trap you. Respond with “Why do you ask?” or “What makes you say that?” It forces them into self-reflection, something they avoid at all costs. 2️⃣ Slow down your responses – Narcissists manipulate through urgency. The faster you react, the easier you are to control. Deliberate pauses make them uncomfortable and disrupt their ability to dominate the conversation. 3️⃣ Use neutral language – Emotion is their weapon. When you stay calm and respond with “That’s interesting” or “I’ll think about it,” you take away their fuel. A narcissist can’t escalate a conflict if you refuse to engage. 4️⃣ Agree with their insults (strategically) – If they call you selfish, try “Maybe you’re right.” This shocks them because they expect resistance. Without an argument to feed on, they lose interest and move on. 5️⃣ Detach from their approval – Their biggest fear is losing control over how you see yourself. When their opinion no longer defines your worth, they lose all power over you. Indifference is the ultimate disarmament. ❤️‍🩹 My Final Thought: Narcissists don’t know how to function without a reaction. The moment you stop playing their game, they lose. Has a narcissist ever tried to manipulate you? I want to know. Share your experience in the comments. Follow for more! #narcissist #narcissists #narcissistsurvivor #narcissistrecovery #narcissistawareness #narcissisticabusesurvivor

Tellement vrai non? 🥹❤️‍🩹 Pas tjr facile de se rendre compte de la chance qu’on a ❤️Désolée @Jojolalouche je te quitte 💔😂 #couple #couplegoals #Relationship #reality #brokenheart

Pov: your babies have transitioned into their nursery and will no longer be sleeping in the same room as you🥺🥲 .. my heart hurts💔

خلص ما بحذفه 🧍🏻‍♀️.. قاعدة اقلب بالدرافتس ولقيت هالفيديو

เว็กซ์ซาน่ากันค่า #MLBBSkinGifts #MobileLegendsBangBang #MLBB #mlbbcreator #โมบายรีเจ้น #โมบาย #mobilelegends #mlbbjan #mlbbthla #mlbbkoc #ml

Te amo 😘 #matrimonio #amor #parejas #apoyodeesposo💏 #matrimonios #matrimoniodivertido

What I'm picking up from the previous eps is that Musa makes promises (lies) to get his way, and when they call him out? they make it seem it's the womens fault for expecting Musa to keep his promises. #uthandonesthembu #showmaxsouthafrica #tiktoksouthafrica

#onthisday #❤️lovelifelaugh❤️ #sadedits #TrueLove #couplestiktok #relatable #fakelove💔 #Relationship #fyp #facts #life #dontbelieveinlove

#consejo #dia #nanacalistar #nanacalistarshow #vira #dinero #tarot #chisme #chisme #flypシ

Cuídalo 🥺 #amorpropio #frases #motivacion #daniaafit

She’s a character 😭 #fyp #daycare #firstday #crybaby #mybabygirl #trending #viralvideo

Your so worth the wait. God finally heard me 🥹❤️ #longdistancerelationship #Love #boyfriend

❤️‍🩹 Narcissistic men don’t want just anyone, they want someone they can control. And kind women are often their top choice. Here’s why: 1️⃣ She Sees the Good in Everyone She assumes people mean well, even when they don’t. Example: He makes a cruel remark, and she thinks, “Maybe he didn’t mean it that way.” Why It Matters: Narcissists rely on women who overlook red flags instead of confronting them. 2️⃣ She’s Deeply Empathetic She feels and cares deeply, always wanting to help. Example: She excuses his toxic behaviour, telling herself, “He’s just hurt, I can help him heal.” Why It Matters: Narcissists twist empathy into a weakness. But love shouldn’t feel like a rescue mission. 3️⃣ She Avoids Conflict She’d rather keep the peace than start an argument. Example: He lashes out, and instead of setting boundaries, she says, “I don’t want to fight.” Why It Matters: Narcissists crave control, and they know she won’t push back. 4️⃣ She Gives More Than She Gets She pours everything into the relationship, even when he doesn’t. Example: She keeps trying to fix things while he puts in no effort. Why It Matters: Narcissists take without guilt, thriving on women who give endlessly. 5️⃣ She Hates Hurting Others She stays, even when she’s suffering,because she can’t bear to cause pain. Example: He mistreats her, but she stays, thinking, “I don’t want to abandon him.” Why It Matters: Narcissists use guilt like a leash, trapping kind women in cycles of pain. 6️⃣ She Craves Deep, True Love She wants something intense and unbreakable, so he fakes it. Example: He mirrors her dreams, making it feel like fate. Why It Matters: It was never real love. It was a trap. And once she sees it, she can break free. ❤️‍🩹 My Final Thought: A kind heart isn’t a weakness, it’s a gift. The right man will cherish it, not exploit it. 💬 Comment “Heal” if this resonates. 🔔 Follow for more, we’re stronger together.❤️‍🩹 #narcissist #narcissistic #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #therapy #covertnarcissist #traumahealing #narcissistsurvivor #narcissists #narcissisticabusesurvivor #abusiverelationship #toxicrelationships

erstmal finanziell ruiniert

❤️‍🩹 #frases #daniaafit #motivacion #amorpropio #daniaamendoza

Tá na hora de dividir tudo, né? 🤡☠️ com @Big Max #meme #humor #relacionamento

How I knew my best friend was over our relationship 💔🥺 #hardtimes #bestfriendbreakup #saddestpovs #fyp #brokenheart

🥹❤️‍🩹 #GeminiFourth

Se siente horrible que la persona que formo parte de ti y que la amaste tanto, ahora seamos dos deconocidos.

Que haría dios mío🤣🤣🤣 Ig andrealiinarez #humor

Regresará a Colo Colo vuelve el peluca Bienvenido sea 🤍🖤🤟🏻 #chile #parati #destacame #colocolo

Cuando el trabajador me ve en el súper

I’ve had abandonment issues all my life BUT this feeling is almost overwhelming 😔😔#emptynesters #ihateithere #genx #mommyissues

Imaginate 💔 #frases #daniaafit #amorpropio #motivacion

Heidi, Astrid, and Therese – I’m sending you a big hug. I hope we’ve used up our bad luck for these championships😭 #crosscountryskiing #xcskiing #sport #langrenn #sportedit #trondheim2025 #trondheim #worldchampionship #wintersport #theresejohaug #johaug #sportstiktok

Esto solo me pasa a mí 😂😂 #madreehija #hija #parati

#viral #primeramentedios #bolivia🇧🇴 #salvandovidas #enlace #enlace #santacruz #enparaty #ypfッ #rescatandogatitos #enparaty #santacruz #ENLACE #ypfッ

202502206 @KISS OF LIFE Concert in Berlin got cancelled the last Minute #KISSOFLIFE #키스오브라이프 #KIOF #키오프 #KISSROAD #KISSROADinEU2025 #kpop #fyp #kpopfyp #sticky #fancam #KISSY #키씨 #Julie #Natty #Belle #Haneul #kpopconcert #foryoupag #kpopfypシ #s2entertainment #kpopedit #kpopers #kpoper #쥴리 #나띠 #벨 #하늘 #borntobexx #loseyourself #midastouch #KISSOFLIFE1stWorldTour #KISSROADinGermany #KISSROADinBerlin #KISSROAD2025 #kissychair

დაუკვირდი მსგავს მინიშნებებს 🤎 უბრალოდ წადი… ნუ მოიწამლავ თავს ტოქსიკური ურთიერთობებით 🤎 instagram: baobuu #foryou #foryoupage #fyp

The pain remains forever but you will always be with me 💔 (Sorry 🫣) Eruri AU, Cosplay ! Everything is fake, it's just acting) #eruri #leviackerman #levicosplay #erwinsmith #AttackOnTitan #aot #snk #cosplay

Only love can hurt like this…RIP Mom. Today would’ve been 5 years under my care, but Vascular Dementia took over. If you would like to donate to support future Neuroscientists, please checkout my Linktree. You can also apply for the scholarship there! Thank you to everyone who supported me & helped with my mom’s care. The MaryLou Scholarship is a way to give back to the community & honor my mom at the same time! #greifjourney #mom #spoiledmary #rip #vasculardementia #positivemindset #positivevibes #thankyouforthecontinuedsupport

#greenscreen #kwonheeseo