Asia J. 🐝

from blob to bod is crazy lmao I never wanted to be skinny, but I did want a lil shape — I can stay 260 - loose skin foreverrrrrr 😍 #weightloss #weightlosstransformation

I don’t want a drum or a flat, I want a WHOLE wing 😋 These crispy baked wings were sooo easy honey! The key is the wire rack. After this I can’t go back to that water chicken 🤣 #cooking #cookinghack #cookwithme #bakedwings #crispybakedwings #crispywings #wings #wingrecipe #wholewings #kinders #kinderssauce #kindersseasoning #wirerack #bakedchicken #bakedwings #bakedchickenrecipe

what do you think? #interiordesign #interiordesigner #bedroomdesign #bedroommakeover #bedroomdecor #bedroominspo

At 538 pounds the world wasn’t so accommodating so I always had to accommodate myself 🤷🏽‍♀️ I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t SO happy that I no longer have to carry around a folding chair in my car 🥹 Life after losing 270 pounds is a life I’ve never known and I’m enjoying every minute of it 💃🏾 #weightloss #weightlossjouney #weightlossmotivation #weightlossupdate #weightlosstransformation

Honey I know I’ve lost 261lbs, my body knows, but does my brain!? Life has done a 180, things I worried about before I don’t even think about now EXCEPT a chair 😂 I need to make sure this precious cargo doesn’t hit the flo! 13 days until 29 🥳 #plussize #plussizefashion #plussizestyle #birthday #birthdayphotoshoot #fashionnova #photoshootbts #aries #ariesszn

Replying to @Natou Cherie no amount of confidence was going to make me stacked like the stallion I felt like on the inside 😂 it’s okay to not like something anymore and change it, I did 🤷🏽‍♀️

How do you feel about plastic surgery 👀 These girls shuffling in for post op check ups making me nervousssss 😭 Idk if I can handle allat! WLS was more uncomfortable than it was painful, ion like pain 🫠 #plasticsurgery #mommymakeover #bbl #lipo

mind you it was 3PM, you ain’t wash yo face ALLLL day??? 😭 #cancelled #dating #datingstorytime #storytime #menbelike #etiquette #etiquettetips

What do y’all think? 👀 #jamila #jamilabell #mecca #meccavellii #lextalktoomuch #super5 #parasocialrelationships

what do i get for my birthday? 👀 it’s almost aries szn ♈️ 29 on the 26th 💃🏾 — birthday photoshoot sneak peak 📸

Since recording this, I’ve come to realize just how vital community truly is—and that being intentional about building it is key to lasting success. That’s why I created The Bari Bunch—a supportive space for individuals who’ve undergone weight loss surgery, all committed to lifelong wellness. Together, we fuel, we move, and we thrive—because this journey is better with a bunch. Join us today 🔗 #wls #wlsjourney #wlscommunity #vsg #gastricbypass #duodenalswitch #accountability #accountabilitypartner

Has anything like this ever happened to you? She started telling people in the shop because a girl just came up to me and said “you look really skinny” LMAO thanks niece 😂 #plussize #plussizeweightloss #weightloss #weightlossjouney #nailsalon #nailsalonstorytime #storytime #weightlosstransformation #transformation

What do you think of the situation? 👀 #badashbakes #dre #badashbakesreview #foodreview #blackownedbusiness

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How did you feel about your body after significant weight loss? Ngl, I was NERVOUS 🫠 What would chinesha look like? Would I have “the gobble” 😭 When will my head look too big for my body 🥲 but honey I can honestly say I haven’t had to face any of those nerves! Body tea, chinesha gone and my jaw line is here honey! I LOVE 260 pounds on me ☺️ #plussize #plussizeweightloss #weightloss #weightlossjouney #wlsjourney #duodenalswitch #duodenalswitchsurgery #weightlosssurgery

Replying to @DJ How has your perception of happiness changed after weight loss? #plussize #plussizeweightloss #weightloss #weightlossjouney #weightlossstruggle #weightlossmotivation #weightlosstruth

I was debating if I’d share this or not because I know many people are waiting for my “gotcha” moment, but tbh I think avoiding this dialogue has kept me in my head more than necessary. I’m carrying guilt that doesn’t belong to me simply because I’m online. I feel like everyone has the right to feel whatever towards their body during whatever stage they see fit. The online pressure to love yourself at every stage is unrealistic and unfair. While yes I’ve loved myself at every stage, I can admit that I like this version of myself more and that’s okay. ##plussize##plussizeweightloss##weightloss##weightlossmotivation##wls##wlsjourney##vsg##vsgcommunity##gastricbypass##gastricbypassjourney##duodenalswitch##duodenalswitchsurgery

y’all actually don’t care about anyone or anything, just looking for your next moment to kiki, it’s sick! y’all don’t have a group chat to discuss this in!? have some couth!

In the spirit of love I’ll refrain from using terms that may be considered derogatory to others because my intent is not to offend but to be as honest as possible on my journey and the truth is, I felt like a blob. No matter how beautiful I KNEW I was, I didn’t FEEL like a feminine woman. In retrospect I often overcompensated for this lack of feeling via taking the longest to get ready, never hitting the streets without a beat and fragrance, and so many other things that I truly should have never had to do to validate my womanhood. A shapely body doesn’t make a woman, her character and mindset does but hindsight is always 20/20 right? #weightloss #weightlossjouney #weightlossmotivation

God is SO good! I’m so thankful my friend was covered through her surgery and is on the road to a smooth recovery! Seeing what I’m getting my self into has me nervous honey but I’m ready to get back to it, work out honey loading 😤 #miami #plasticsurgery #bbl #mommymakeover #postop